How to Say “How Are You” in Japanese to a Girl

元気?
genki?casual
To a girl you know, ask 元気? (genki?). With someone you do not know well, use the polite お元気ですか? (ogenki desu ka?). It is also called 調子はどう? (chōshi wa dō?).
Meaning: greeting asking about well-being (phrase)

Ways to say it

“how are you?” in Japanese
Japanese Romanization Note
元気? genki? casual
お元気ですか? ogenki desu ka? polite
調子はどう? chōshi wa dō? casual

The words do not change for a girl or a boy. For a girl friend you can add her name, as in ミカちゃん、元気? (Mika-chan, genki?).

Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?

調子はどう? (chōshi wa dō?) means "how is it going" and fits close friends. お元気ですか? (ogenki desu ka?) fits people you have not seen for a while.

Did you know?

  • The word 元気 (genki) is also used as a name, and 元気です (genki desu) is the standard answer.

Examples in context

  • 久しぶり!元気?
    Hisashiburi! Genki?
    Long time! How are you?
  • お元気ですか?
    Ogenki desu ka?
    How are you?

Example conversation

Daichi runs into Mika, an old classmate, near the station.

  1. Daichi

    ミカちゃん、久しぶり。元気?
    Mika-chan, hisashiburi. Genki?
    Mika, long time. How are you?
  2. Mika

    うん、元気だよ。ダイチは?
    Un, genki da yo. Daichi wa?
    Yes, I am good. And you?
  3. Daichi

    元気だよ。
    Genki da yo.
    I am good.
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