kondolerer
The English phrase "sorry for your loss" is expressed in Norwegian as kondolerer.
kondolerer is a formal verb used specifically in the context of death and serves as the standard way to express sympathy in Norwegian. It translates to "condolences" or "I'm sorry for your loss."
Which one should you use?
While kondolerer is the standard for bereavement, do not use beklager to express sympathy for a death. Beklager is used for apologizing for mistakes or inconveniences.
Is it said differently in some regions?
In the southern parts of Norway, the formal expression Våre tanker er med deg may be modified to Tankan e me dæ in local speech.
How does it change in a sentence?
Although kondolerer can stand alone, adding the subject Jeg (I) to create Jeg kondolerer makes the expression more complete and formal.
What mistakes should you avoid?
Do not use beklager to express sympathy for a death, as it is intended for apologizing for mistakes or inconveniences. Instead, use kondolerer.
Did you know?
- In written sympathy cards, it is common to see the phrase Vennlig hilsen (Friendly greetings) following kondolerer, which might seem too casual to an English speaker.
- In many Norwegian funeral traditions, the act of saying kondolerer is often accompanied by a simple, firm handshake rather than a long hug, depending on the closeness of the relationship.
- The verb kondolerer shares a common Latin root with the English word 'condolence', making it an unexpected cognate for many learners.
Examples in context
- Jeg kondolerer så mye.I am so sorry for your loss.
- Vi kondolerer med det store tapet.We offer our condolences for your great loss.
Example conversation
Jakob meets Sofie at a funeral service.
- JakobJeg kondolerer, Sofie.I am sorry for your loss, Sofie.
- SofieTakk skal du ha, Jakob.Thank you, Jakob.
- JakobVi tenker på deg nå.We are thinking of you now.
- SofieDet setter jeg stor pris på.I really appreciate that.
