Ngiyaxolisa
To say "I am sorry" in Zulu, use Ngiyaxolisa.
Ngiyaxolisa is an expression used to apologize for a mistake or a wrongdoing.
What does it mean word for word?
The word is composed of the prefix ngi- (I), the subject concord -ya- (present continuous marker) and the verb stem -xolisa (to apologize or to make peace).
Which one should you use?
Ngiyaxolisa is the verb phrase meaning "I am sorry", whereas the noun Uxolo (Forgiveness / Peace) is often used as a standalone exclamation to mean "Forgiveness!" or "Pardon!" when someone bumps into you or makes a minor social error.
How does it change in a sentence?
The verb stem -xolisa is the causative form of -xola (to be at peace/to be calm), so literally, you are "making yourself at peace" or "causing peace" to rectify a situation.
Did you know?
- The verb -xola can also describe the calming of a storm or the settling of turbulent water, linking the act of apologizing to the calming of nature.
- In traditional Zulu culture, a sincere apology might be accompanied by a physical gesture such as lowering one's gaze or slightly bowing the head to show humility and respect to the aggrieved party.
- Depending on the region and social context, a person may use the word Uxolo as a way to politely interrupt someone or to ask for a right-of-way in a crowd, similar to 'excuse me'.
Examples in context
- Ngiyaxolisa kakhulu.I am very sorry.
Example conversation
Nomalusa accidentally bumped into Bandile in a crowded market.
- NomalusaNgiyaxolisa, Bandile.I am sorry, Bandile.
- BandileKulungile, Nomalusa.It is okay, Nomalusa.
- NomalusaNgiyaxolisa ngokushayisana nawe.I am sorry for bumping into you.
- BandileUngakhathazeki, akukho nkinga.Don't worry, it is no problem.
