xin chia buồn
[sin˧˧ t͡ɕiə˧˧ ʔɓuən˨˩]word by word
The phrase "sorry for your loss" is expressed in Vietnamese as xin chia buồn.
xin chia buồn is the standard, polite way to express condolences to someone who has experienced a death.
What does it mean word for word?
The phrase is composed of xin (to request/please), chia (to divide/share) and buồn (sadness/sorrow).
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
The use of xin at the beginning makes the phrase polite and respectful, making it suitable for both acquaintances and formal settings.
How does it change in a sentence?
In formal or written condolences, it is common to add cùng gia đình (with the family) to the end of the phrase, resulting in xin chia buồn cùng gia đình.
Did you know?
- The word buồn used in this sympathy phrase is a linguistic relative of the word phiền, which means 'to be annoyed' or 'bothered'.
- While xin chia buồn is the standard phrase, Vietnamese culture often prioritizes practical help over spoken condolences, such as bringing food or helping with funeral logistics.
- In very formal settings, xin chia buồn is often written on a white or black funeral wreath, which is a central visual element of the mourning process in Vietnam.
Examples in context
- Tôi xin chia buồn cùng gia đình bạn.I offer my condolences to your family.
- Xin chia buồn với anh về sự mất mát này.I am sorry for your loss.
- Mọi người đều xin chia buồn cùng bạn.Everyone offers their condolences to you.
Example conversation
Chi is visiting Tuấn to offer sympathy after a death in his family.
- ChiEm xin chia buồn cùng anh và gia đình.I offer my condolences to you and your family.
- TuấnCảm ơn em rất nhiều.Thank you very much.
- ChiAnh hãy giữ gìn sức khỏe nhé.Please take care of your health.
- TuấnAnh sẽ cố gắng.I will try.
