How to Say “I Miss You” in Xhosa

Ndiyakukhumbula
The English phrase 'I miss you' is translated into Xhosa as Ndiyakukhumbula.
Meaning: I miss you (phrase)

What does it mean word for word?

The word Ndiyakukhumbula is broken down into several parts: the subject prefix ndi- (I), the present tense marker -ya-, the object concord -ku- (you) and the verb khumbula (remember/miss).

Which one should you use?

Use Ndiyakukhumbula when you are talking to one person. If you are speaking to a group of people, use the plural form Ndiyanikhumbula.

How does it change in a sentence?

The form Ndiyakukhumbula uses the singular object concord -ku- to indicate you are speaking to one person. To change the phrase to the plural form for multiple people, the object concord -ku- is replaced with -ni- to create Ndiyanikhumbula.

Did you know?

  • In Xhosa culture, expressing 'missing' someone can be tied to the concept of Ubuntu, where a person's identity is defined by their relationships with others.
  • The verb khumbula is a linguistic double agent because it means both 'to miss' and 'to remember'. To say 'I miss you' is literally to say 'I remember you'.
  • Xhosa is a tonal language, meaning the pitch used when saying Ndiyakukhumbula can help convey the intensity of the emotion being expressed.

Examples in context

  • Ndiyakukhumbula kakhulu.
    I miss you very much.
  • Ndiyakukhumbula, mfondini.
    I miss you, my friend (male).
  • Ndiyakukhumbula, ndifuna ukukubona.
    I miss you, I want to see you.

Example conversation

Lwazi and Siyabonga are talking on the phone.

  1. Lwazi

    Molo Siyabonga, ndiyakukhumbula.
    Hello Siyabonga, I miss you.
  2. Siyabonga

    Nam ndiyakukhumbula Lwazi.
    I miss you too, Lwazi.
  3. Lwazi

    Siza nini ekhaya?
    When are you coming home?
  4. Siyabonga

    Niza ngovalo lweveki.
    I am coming next weekend.
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