What does it mean word for word?
The word condoglianze literally means "condolences".
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
condoglianze can be used as a standalone, formal way to say "Condolences" by saying Condoglianze. For a more formal and respectful tone, especially in written messages or formal settings, you can use Sentite condoglianze (Heartfelt condolences). Other highly respectful ways to express deep sympathy in formal writing or speech include Le mie più sincere condoglianze (My most sincere condolences) or the full sentence Ti/Le porgo le mie più sentite condoglianze (I offer you my most heartfelt condolences). In contrast, if you are speaking informally, you might say Ti sono vicino/a (I'm close to you).
How does it change in a sentence?
The phrase is often used in its full form Le mie condoglianze to express sympathy.
When do people say it?
When expressing sympathy for a death, you can use more elaborate formal phrases such as Possa trovare conforto nel ricordo dei bei momenti condivisi (May you find comfort in the memories of the beautiful moments shared).
Did you know?
- If you are writing a formal sympathy card, it is customary to use the phrase Partecipiamo al vostro dolore, which translates to 'We participate in your grief'.
- The word sentite in sentite condoglianze comes from the verb sentire, which means both 'to hear' and 'to feel', implying that the sympathy is felt deep within the heart.
- In Italy, it is common practice to visit the family at their home or at the funeral parlor rather than just sending a text message, as a verbal expression of condoglianze is seen as more sincere.
Examples in context
- Cara Laura, mi dispiace tanto per la perdita di tuo padre. Ti sono vicina in questo momento difficile e spero che tu possa trovare conforto con la tua famiglia. Un abbraccio forte.Dear Laura, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I'm here for you during this difficult time, and I hope you find comfort with your family. A big hug.
- Accetta le mie sincere condoglianze.Please accept my sincere condolences.
Example conversation
Chiara is visiting Matteo at his home after his father passed away.
- ChiaraMatteo, le mie più sentite condoglianze.Matteo, my deepest condolences.
- MatteoGrazie mille, Chiara.Thank you so much, Chiara.
- ChiaraTi sono molto vicina in questo momento.I am very close to you in this moment.
- MatteoApprezzo molto il tuo affetto.I really appreciate your affection.
Sources
- Pronunciation: Wiktionary entry condoglianze, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.
