How to Say “I Miss You” in Japanese to a Friend

会いたいな
aitai nacasual
To a friend, say 会いたいな (aitai na), "I would like to see you". The ending な (na) keeps it light and friendly. It is also called 久しぶりに会いたいね (hisashiburi ni aitai ne) and 寂しくなるね (sabishiku naru ne).
Meaning: expressing that you miss someone (phrase)

Ways to say it

“I miss you” in Japanese
Japanese Romanization Note
会いたいな aitai na casual
久しぶりに会いたいね hisashiburi ni aitai ne casual
寂しくなるね sabishiku naru ne casual

Between friends it is natural to say 久しぶりに会いたいね (hisashiburi ni aitai ne), "let us meet after a long time". For a friend who is leaving, 寂しくなるね (sabishiku naru ne) means "it will get lonely".

Which one should you use?

Alone, 会いたい (aitai) can sound romantic. Adding な (na) or the context of meeting up keeps the friend meaning clear.

Did you know?

  • The verb 会う (au) is for meeting a person, while a different verb 逢う (au) with another character appears in poems and songs with a romantic feeling.

Examples in context

  • 最近会えてないね。会いたいな。
    Saikin aete nai ne. Aitai na.
    We have not met lately. I miss you.
  • 引っ越したら寂しくなるね。
    Hikkoshitara sabishiku naru ne.
    It will be lonely when you move.

Example conversation

Emi calls her old school friend Saki who lives in another city.

  1. Emi

    久しぶり!元気?
    Hisashiburi! Genki?
    Long time! How are you?
  2. Saki

    うん、元気だよ。
    Un, genki da yo.
    Yes, I am well.
  3. Emi

    会いたいな。今度会おうよ。
    Aitai na. Kondo aō yo.
    I miss you. Let us meet soon.
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