How to Say “Girlfriend” in Chinese

女朋友
nǚpéngyǒu
The Chinese word for girlfriend is 女朋友 (nǚpéngyǒu). Wiktionary also lists 對象 / 对象 (duìxiàng).
Meaning: a female partner in a romantic relationship (noun)

Ways to say it

“girlfriend” in Chinese
Chinese Romanization (Wiktionary) Note
女朋友 nǚpéngyǒu
對象 / 对象 duìxiàng gender neutral

The term 女朋友 is used to describe a female partner in a romantic relationship. While it literally translates to a female friend, it almost always implies a romantic connection rather than a platonic one.

What does it mean word for word?

The term 女朋友 is composed of 女, meaning female and 朋友, meaning friend.

Which one should you use?

女朋友 is gender-specific, referring specifically to a woman. In contrast, 对象 is a gender-neutral term used to refer to a romantic partner, a significant other or someone one is dating or intended to marry.

How do you pronounce it?

nǚpéngyǒu

What mistakes should you avoid?

Be careful not to use 女朋友 to mean a platonic female friend, as it almost always implies a romantic relationship.

Did you know?

  • The word 女朋友 is a linguistic calque, meaning it was constructed by translating the English concept of 'girlfriend' into Chinese characters.
  • The term 对象 literally means 'object' or 'target'. In a romantic context, it describes a person who is the 'object' of one's affection or a target for marriage.
  • If you want to refer to a platonic female friend without any romantic confusion, you should use 女性朋友 instead of the shorter 女朋友.

Examples in context

  • 他没有女朋友。
    He has no girlfriend.
    This sentence is useful for stating that someone does not have a girlfriend.
    Tatoeba #432313 by GlossaMatik, translation #284658 by CK
  • 我女朋友哭了。
    My girlfriend cried.
    This sentence is useful for describing an action taken by a girlfriend.
    Tatoeba #3701816 by egg0073, translation #7770417 by sharris123
  • 你女朋友是谁?
    Who's your girlfriend?
    This sentence is useful for asking someone to identify their girlfriend.
    Tatoeba #4473139 by yuiyu, translation #2240401 by Hybrid
  • 我的 女朋友 是一位医生。
    My girlfriend is a doctor.
  • 他的 女友 很漂亮,大家都喜欢她。
    His girlfriend is beautiful, and everyone likes her.
  • 58 more sentences on Tatoeba

Example conversation

At a cafe, Zhiqiang introduces his girlfriend to Zihan.

  1. 志强 Zhiqiang

    梓涵,这是我女朋友。
    Zǐhán, zhè shì wǒ nǚpéngyǒu.
    Zihan, this is my girlfriend.
  2. 梓涵 Zihan

    你好,很高兴认识你。
    Nǐ hǎo, hěn gāoxìng rènshi nǐ.
    Hello, nice to meet you.
  3. 志强 Zhiqiang

    她也是我的好朋友。
    Tā yě shì wǒ de hǎo péngyǒu.
    She is also my good friend.
  4. 梓涵 Zihan

    你们两个很般配。
    Nǐmen liǎng gè hěn bānpèi.
    You two look great together.

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