toʻafilemū
To calm down in Samoan is toʻafilemū.
The term is used as a verb to describe the process of becoming less excited.
Meaning: To become less excited (verb)
Did you know?
- The word toʻa can also refer to a 'warrior' or 'brave person' in certain historical contexts, suggesting that staying calm is a form of strength.
- Unlike the English 'calm down' which can sometimes sound patronizing, using toʻafilemū can imply a respectful call to return to a state of dignified composure.
- While English speakers might use 'calm down' to stop an argument, a Samoan speaker might use the essence of toʻafilemū to signal a return to 'va fealoai', the respectful space between people.
Examples in context
- E tatau ona e toʻafilemū.You need to calm down.
- Faʻamolemole, ia toʻafilemū pea.Please, just stay calm.
- Ua toʻafilemū le tama.The boy has calmed down.
Example conversation
Tasi and Sina are arguing about a lost key.
- TasiSina, faamolemole ia toʻafilemū.Sina, please calm down.
- SinaOu te le mafai, ua ou ita!I can't, I am angry!
- TasiE le sili se mea pe a toʻafilemū.Things are better when you calm down.
- SinaO oe o le mea sili, Tasi.You are right, Tasi.
