Benimle evlenir misin?
Benimle evlenir misin? is the Turkish way to say "will you marry me?"
This phrase is a question used when asking someone to become your spouse.
Which one should you use?
The form Benimle evlenir misin? is the standard way to propose to a romantic partner. The form Benimle evlenir misiniz? is a more formal version.
How does it change in a sentence?
The phrase Benimle evlenir misin? uses the second person singular informal form. The plural or polite form Benimle evlenir misiniz? can also be used to show extreme respect.
What mistakes should you avoid?
Avoid saying Beni evlendirir misin? English speakers often mistakenly use the accusative case beni (me) instead of the instrumental case benimle (with me). In Turkish, you marry with someone.
When do people say it?
A common enthusiastic response to a marriage proposal is Evet, evet!
Did you know?
- During the formal proposal process, it is a custom to serve the groom's family salty coffee instead of sweet coffee as a test of the groom's patience and devotion.
- The root word evlenmek comes from ev, meaning 'house'. To marry in Turkish is literally to 'become a house' or 'establish a home'.
- In some traditional contexts, a proposal is not just a question but is accompanied by the presentation of a 'nişan yüzüğü' or engagement ring, often worn on the right hand until the wedding.
Example conversation
Can proposes to Zeynep during a romantic dinner.
- CanZeynep, benimle evlenir misin?Zeynep, will you marry me?
- ZeynepEvet, evet, tabii ki!Yes, yes, of course!
- CanÇok mutluyum, seni çok seviyorum.I am so happy, I love you so much.
- ZeynepBen de seni çok seviyorum.I love you very much too.
