How to Say “Will You Marry Me?” in German

Willst du mich heiraten?
The English phrase "will you marry me?" is translated into German as Willst du mich heiraten?
This phrase is a question used to ask someone to become one's spouse.

Which one should you use?

Willst du mich heiraten? is the standard way to propose to a romantic partner. In contrast, the formal version Wollen Sie mich heiraten? would sound unnaturally distant and formal in a marriage proposal.

How does it change in a sentence?

The default form Willst du mich heiraten? uses the informal du (you), which is the standard pronoun for a romantic partner. The formal version uses Sie instead of du.

Did you know?

  • A common cultural nuance in Germany is that the proposal may happen after the couple has already mutually decided to marry, making the phrase Willst du mich heiraten? more of a romantic formality than a question of uncertainty.
  • The German pronoun du is a direct relative of the archaic English word 'thou'. Both share a common ancestor in the Proto-Germanic word *þū.
  • The German word Heirat for 'marriage' is used specifically for the act of wedding, whereas Ehe refers to the lifelong state of being married.

Examples in context

  • Mein Schatz, willst du mich heiraten?
    My darling, will you marry me?
  • Schatzi, möchtest du meine Frau werden?
    Honey, would you like to become my wife?
  • Ich liebe dich, willst du mich heiraten?
    I love you, will you marry me?
  • Sag ja, willst du mich heiraten?
    Say yes, will you marry me?

Example conversation

Maximilian takes Laura to a beautiful park for a romantic dinner.

  1. Maximilian

    Laura, du bist mein Leben.
    Laura, you are my life.
  2. Laura

    Das ist so romantisch, Maximilian.
    That is so romantic, Maximilian.
  3. Maximilian

    Willst du mich heiraten?
    Will you marry me?
  4. Laura

    Ja, natürlich möchte ich das!
    Yes, of course I want to!

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