How to Say “Lover” in Italian

amante
/aˈman.te/feminine, masculine
In Italian, the word for lover is amante.
amante is used to describe a sexual partner. While it can also be used more broadly to describe someone who loves a specific thing, such as food, when applied to a person's relationship, it specifically implies a sexual partner, often in the context of an extramarital affair.
Meaning: sexual partner (noun)

Which one should you use?

When referring to a person's relationship, amante implies a sexual partner or an illicit affair, which differs from its use when describing someone who is a lover of an object or concept, such as food.

How does it change in a sentence?

The word amante is epicene, which means the form remains the same for both masculine and feminine nouns. The gender is instead indicated by the article used (un amante for a male or un'amante for a female).

How do you pronounce it?

The word has 3 syllables, with the stress on the 2nd syllable: /aˈman.te/.

What mistakes should you avoid?

Avoid using amante to mean a romantic boyfriend or girlfriend in a standard, committed relationship, as it carries a strong connotation of a secret or illicit sexual affair.

When do people say it?

If you wish to refer to a lover affectionately, you might use the informal term tesoro, which means treasure or the playful nickname cuore mio, which means my heart.

Did you know?

  • In many classical Italian literary works, an amante is a standard character type used to drive tragic plots involving betrayal.
  • The word amante shares its root with the English word 'amatory', which relates to romantic or sexual love.
  • The word amante is a 'gender-neutral' noun, meaning its ending does not change from 'e' to 'a' when referring to a woman.

Examples in context

  • Lei ha un amante.
    She has a lover.
    This sentence demonstrates the use of amante to mean a lover.
    Tatoeba #3345274 by Guybrush88, translation #2752875 by Hybrid
  • Non ho un amante.
    I don't have a lover.
    This sentence shows the negative form of the word amante.
    Tatoeba #4692391 by Guybrush88, translation #3098772 by Hybrid
  • È un amante del pane.
    He's a bread lover.
    This sentence shows how amante can be used to describe a lover of a specific thing, such as bread.
    Tatoeba #4061106 by Guybrush88, translation #1241224 by Scott
  • Ho un amante straordinario.
    I have an extraordinary lover.
  • Vieni qui, tesoro.
    Come here, sweetheart.
  • Amore mio, sei il sole della mia vita.
    My love, you are the sunshine of my life.
  • 66 more sentences on Tatoeba

Example conversation

Chiara and Matteo are talking about a scandalous novel.

  1. Matteo

    Chiara, hai letto il nuovo romanzo?
    Chiara, have you read the new novel?
  2. Chiara

    Sì, ma la storia è troppo scandalosa.
    Yes, but the story is too scandalous.
  3. Matteo

    Parli dell'amante della protagonista?
    Are you talking about the protagonist's lover?
  4. Chiara

    Esatto, Matteo, è molto intrigante.
    Exactly, Matteo, it is very intriguing.

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