Patricia Isabella
Learning how to say “Do you want to be friends” in Korean is a great way to break the ice and start building connections with native Korean speakers. In this guide, we will explore both formal and informal ways of expressing this phrase, along with some tips and examples. Let’s get started!
Formal Expressions
In formal situations or when speaking to someone older or in a position of authority, you can use the following expressions to ask “Do you want to be friends?”
“친구가 되시겠어요?” (chin-gu-ga dweh-si-ge-sseo-yo?)
“친구가 되어 주실래요?” (chin-gu-ga dweh-eo ju-shil-lae-yo?)
Tips:
- When using formal expressions, be sure to use the polite form of verbs and honorific language.
- Adding “시” (si) to the verb stem makes it more respectful.
- Ending your sentence with “요” (yo) adds politeness.
Examples:
- “존경하는 선배, 친구가 되어 주실래요?” (jon-kyeong-ha-neun seon-bae, chin-gu-ga dweh-eo ju-shil-lae-yo?) (Respected senior, would you like to be friends?)
- “죄송합니다, 귀하, 친구가 되시겠어요?” (joe-song-ham-ni-da, gwi-ha, chin-gu-ga dweh-si-ge-sseo-yo?) (I apologize, sir/madam, would you like to be friends?)
Informal Expressions
When speaking to someone younger or in informal situations, you can use the following phrases to ask “Do you want to be friends?”
“친구가 될래?” (chin-gu-ga dwel-lae?)
“친구가 돼 줄래?” (chin-gu-ga dwae jul-lae?)
Tips:
- In informal settings, it is common to drop the formal honorific language and use plain forms of verbs.
- The ending “래?” (lae?) adds a friendly and casual tone to your question.
Examples:
- “요즘엔 같이 노는 게 재미있을 거 같아. 친구가 될래?” (yo-jeum-en ga-chi no-neun ge jae-mi-it-eul geo ga-ta. chin-gu-ga dwel-lae?) (These days, I think it would be fun to hang out together. Do you want to be friends?)
- “우리 서로 이야기하면서 점점 더 친해지는 거 같아. 친구가 돼 줄래?” (u-ri seo-ro i-ya-gi-ha-myeon-seo jeom-jeom deo chin-hae-ji-neun geo ga-ta. chin-gu-ga dwae jul-lae?) (As we talk more, I feel like we’re getting closer. Do you want to be friends?)
Regional Variations
The expressions mentioned above are commonly used across different Korean regions. However, it’s worth noting that some regions may have unique variations. Here are a couple of examples:
In the Jeolla region:
“친구가 될가요?” (chin-gu-ga dwel-ga-yo?)
In Busan:
“친구가 돼보레?” (chin-gu-ga dwae-bo-re?)
In most cases, using the general phrases shared earlier will be appropriate regardless of the region.
Conclusion
Learning how to say “Do you want to be friends” in Korean is a fantastic way to establish new connections with native speakers. Whether you’re in a formal or informal setting, now you have the knowledge to initiate friendships in Korean. Remember to consider the appropriate level of formality based on the situation and the person you are speaking to. Keep practicing these phrases, and you’ll soon find yourself making friends in Korean-speaking communities!
