What does it mean word for word?
The phrase comment vous appelez-vous ? literally translates to "how do you call yourself?"
Which one should you use?
comment vous appelez-vous ? is used for formal interactions, whereas comment tu t'appelles ? is the standard way to ask someone's name in an informal setting. Use comment tu t'appelles ? when speaking to a child, a peer or someone you know well.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
comment vous appelez-vous ? is a formal version. The use of vous makes this phrase appropriate for formal situations or when addressing strangers and superiors. For even higher levels of respect, you may use Excusez-moi, comment vous nommez-vous ? In contrast, comment tu t'appelles ? is the informal option.
How does it change in a sentence?
To answer this question, use the reflexive verb form Je m'appelle… followed by your name.
Did you know?
- The French word vous used in this phrase is a distant relative of the Russian word вы 'vy'.
- In very formal French circles, asking for a name can be seen as too direct, so people often start with Puis-je vous demander votre nom ? meaning 'May I ask your name?'
- While comment vous appelez-vous ? is standard, the verb appeler also means 'to call' in the sense of shouting or summoning someone.
Examples in context
- Excusez-moi, comment vous appelez-vous ?Excuse me, what is your name?
- Monsieur, comment vous appelez-vous ?Sir, what is your name?
Example conversation
At a formal business reception.
- LucasBonjour, comment vous appelez-vous ?Hello, what is your name?
- ChloéJe m'appelle Hugo, enchanté.My name is Hugo, nice to meet you.
- LucasEnchantée, Hugo. Moi, c'est Chloé.Nice to meet you, Hugo. I am Chloé.
- ChloéRavi de vous rencontrer, Chloé.Delighted to meet you, Chloé.
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries comment, vous, CC BY-SA 4.0.
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