What does it mean word for word?
The phrase is composed of sabai (well/comfortable), di (good) and mai (a question particle), which literally translates to "Are you well?"
Which one should you use?
While สบายดีไหม specifically asks about well-being, the phrase เป็นอย่างไรบ้าง is a more general way to ask "how are things going?" or "how have you been?"
How does it change in a sentence?
To make the phrase polite for a male speaker, add the particle ครับ at the end to form สบายดีไหมครับ. For a female speaker, add the particle คะ at the end to form สบายดีไหมคะ. Additionally, if you are addressing someone very formally, you may use ท่าน for "you."
How do you pronounce it?
sabai di mai /sa˨˩.baːj˧.diː˧.maj˩˩˦/
When do people say it?
A standard response to this greeting is สบายดี, which means "I am well."
Did you know?
- While สบายดีไหม is a perfect translation of 'how are you', Thai people often prefer to skip the greeting entirely and ask 'Have you eaten yet?' using กินข้าวหรือยัง to show care.
- When answering สบายดี, Thais often accompany the phrase with a 'wai' gesture. This involves pressing the palms together and bowing slightly to show respect to the person who asked.
- In casual settings, if you use the full phrase สบายดีไหม with close friends, it can actually sound strangely formal or even slightly distant, as if you are being overly polite.
Examples in context
- สวัสดีครับ/ค่ะ ท่านสุขสบายดีไหมครับ/ค่ะ?Hello. Are you doing well?
- คุณเป็นอย่างไรบ้างครับ/ค่ะ?How are you?
- คุณสบายดีไหมครับ/ค่ะ?Are you well?
- เป็นไงบ้างครับ/ค่ะ?How's it going?
- สบายดีไหมคะ?sa-baai-dee-mai-kha?How are you doing?
- ช่วงนี้สบายดีไหมครับ?chuang-nee-sa-baai-dee-mai-khrap?How have you been lately?
- คุณสบายดีไหม?khun-sa-baai-dee-mai?Are you doing well?
Example conversation
Two friends meet at a cafe.
- พิมล Pimonสวัสดีค่ะ ธีรภัทร สบายดีไหมคะsawatdee kâ Theeraphat sabaidee mái káHello Theeraphat, how are you doing?
- ธีรภัทร Theeraphatสบายดีครับ แล้วพิมลล่ะครับsabaidee kráp laew Phimon lâ krápI'm doing well. And you, Phimon?
- พิมล Pimonสบายดีค่ะ ขอบคุณค่ะsabaidee kâ kòp kun kâI'm doing well, thank you.
- ธีรภัทร Theeraphatยินดีที่ได้เจอครับyindee têe dâi jer krápIt's good to see you.
Sources
- Pronunciation: Wiktionary entry สบายดีไหม, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.