Which one should you use?
While kakek is a standard term, you may encounter Eyang, which is a more formal or polite alternative and Opa, which is an informal and affectionate way to say grandpa.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
If you want to be more formal or polite, you should use Eyang. When speaking informally or affectionately, Opa is used. Additionally, the capitalized form Kakek is used as a formal term to address one's grandfather in Indonesian.
Is it said differently in some regions?
Opa is commonly used in urban areas or by Indonesian families with Dutch heritage.
How do you pronounce it?
/ˈkakɛʔ/
When do people say it?
In many Indonesian families, particularly those with Dutch heritage or living in urban settings, the word Opa is a common affectionate way to refer to a grandfather.
Did you know?
- In many Indonesian households, instead of using a name, you might address an elderly man as Kakek even if you are not related to him, as a sign of respect.
- In some traditional contexts, Eyang can be used to refer to ancestors or high-ranking nobility, not just a biological grandfather.
- The word kakek is a linguistic evolution of the ancient term aki, which was once used across the Malay world to denote an elder or grandfather.
Examples in context
- Kakek, apa kabar?Grandpa, how are you?
- Opa, saya rindu padamu.Grandpa, I miss you.
- Kakek sedang membaca koran.Grandpa is reading a newspaper.
- Aku punya kakek yang sangat lucu.I have a very funny grandpa.
- Apakah kakek sudah makan?Has grandpa eaten yet?
Example conversation
Rian and Putri are talking about their family members.
- RianApakah kakekmu ada di rumah?Is your grandpa at home?
- PutriTidak, kakek sedang pergi ke pasar.No, grandpa is going to the market.
- RianKakek sering pergi ke sana.Grandpa often goes there.
- PutriIya, kakek suka membeli buah.Yes, grandpa likes buying fruit.
Sources
- Pronunciation: Wiktionary entry kakek, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries kakek, CC BY-SA 4.0.