How to Say “Can We Be Friends?” in Portuguese

Podemos ser amigos?
The English phrase "can we be friends?" is translated into Portuguese as Podemos ser amigos?
This phrase is a question used to ask someone if they would like to start a friendship with you.

What does it mean word for word?

Podemos is the first-person plural form of the verb poder (to be able to/can), and ser is the infinitive to be.

Which one should you use?

amigos is the standard way to say "friends" in a mixed-gender group and is also used as the default plural for a group of men.

How does it change in a sentence?

If the group of people being referred to consists only of women, the masculine plural amigos changes to the feminine plural amigas, resulting in Podemos ser amigas?

Did you know?

  • The word amigo is often used in Brazil as a generic way to address a stranger, similar to 'mate' or 'buddy', even if there is no actual friendship.
  • In some regions, adding the suffix -inho to make amiguinho can shift the meaning from a friend to a 'little friend', sometimes used to describe a child's playmate or a secret romantic partner.
  • In many Portuguese-speaking cultures, instead of asking Podemos ser amigos?, people often skip the formal request and simply start using the informal 'tu' or 'você' to signal a shift in closeness.

Examples in context

  • Você consideraria estabelecer uma amizade comigo? Acredito que poderíamos ser grandes amigos e contribuir um para a vida do outro.
    Would you consider establishing a friendship with me? I believe we could be great friends and add value to each other's lives.
  • Ei, você topa ser meu amigo? Acho que temos muitas coisas em comum e poderíamos nos divertir muito juntos!
    Hey, do you want to be my friend? I think we have a lot in common, and we could have a lot of fun together!
  • Eu gosto de você. Podemos ser amigos?
    I like you. Can we be friends?
  • Você é legal. Podemos ser amigos?
    You are cool. Can we be friends?

Example conversation

Camila and Felipe are talking after a school project.

  1. Camila

    Oi, Felipe. Você é muito legal.
    Hi, Felipe. You are very cool.
  2. Felipe

    Obrigado, Camila!
    Thanks, Camila!
  3. Camila

    Podemos ser amigos?
    Can we be friends?
  4. Felipe

    Claro, eu adoraria.
    Sure, I would love to.
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