'oku ke sino
In Tongan, "you're fat" is said as 'oku ke sino.
The phrase 'oku ke sino is a statement used to tell someone that they are overweight.
When do people say it?
This phrase is highly blunt and can be perceived as an insult or a direct confrontation in Tongan culture.
Did you know?
- In many Polynesian cultures, including Tonga, a larger body size has historically been viewed as a sign of wealth, health and high social status.
- Depending on the tone and relationship, 'oku ke sino can be used as a term of endearment or a teasing joke among very close family members.
- While 'sino' literally refers to the 'body' or 'torso', using it in this context shifts the focus from a person's identity to a specific physical dimension.
Example conversation
Two friends are talking about health and clothing.
- MeleKo e hā 'oku 'ikai ke tau 'ilo e kofú?Why doesn't the dress fit?
- ViliamiHe 'oku ke sino, Mele.Because you're fat, Mele.
- MeleKae 'oku 'ikai ke sino Viliami!But Viliami isn't fat!
- ViliamiKo e mo'oni ia.That is true.
