New Zealand Sign Language (NZSL) is a beautiful and expressive language used by the Deaf community in New Zealand. Just like spoken languages, NZSL has various ways to convey politeness and respect, including the word “please.” In this guide, we will explore formal and informal ways to say “please” in NZSL, providing tips, examples, and even touching on regional variations.
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Formal Ways to Say “Please” in NZSL
1. Basic Formal Sign: The most common way to say “please” in a formal context is by using the -PLEASE sign. Start with your dominant hand open and palm facing up in front of your chest. Then, move your hand forward with a slight twist of the wrist, ending with fingers closed. This sign shows respect and politeness when making formal requests or asking for something politely.
Example: If you want to ask a Deaf person for a pen, you would sign PEN, followed by the -PLEASE sign. It would look like this:
PEN -PLEASE
2. Super Polite Gesture: Another formal way to express “please” is through a non-manual sign. After signing the request or question, you can tilt your head slightly to the side, accompanied by a soft, warm smile. This gentle gesture is considered highly respectful and conveys politeness beyond just words.
Example: If you’d like to ask for directions, you can sign DIRECTION and then gesture the head tilt and smile:
DIRECTION (head tilt and smile)
Informal Ways to Say “Please” in NZSL
1. Contextual Facial Expression: In less formal situations, especially among friends or family, the use of non-manual signs can add politeness to requests. Raising your eyebrows slightly and using a gentle facial expression can convey a “please” without explicitly signing the word.
Example: If you want to ask your friend to pass you a drink, you can simply sign DRINK while raising your eyebrows slightly and using a friendly expression:
DRINK (with raised eyebrows and friendly expression)
2. Minimized -PLEASE sign: In casual settings, you can simplify the -PLEASE sign mentioned earlier. Instead of moving your hand forward with a twist, you can just extend your arm with a slight movement towards the person you are addressing.
Example: If you want to ask your sibling to close the door, you can sign DOOR, followed by the shortened -PLEASE sign:
DOOR -PLEASE (with a slight movement towards your sibling)
Tips for Using “Please” in NZSL
1. Non-Manual Signs: Remember that facial expressions, head movements, and body language play a significant role in NZSL. Combining signs with appropriate non-manual cues can enhance your communication and convey politeness effectively.
2. Tone and Eye Contact: Maintain a warm and friendly tone while signing “please.” Ensure you establish direct eye contact, as it fosters a sense of connection and respect within the Deaf community.
3. Context Matters: Consider the situation and the formality level when choosing how to express “please.” What might be appropriate in one setting can vary in another. Pay attention to the cues from the Deaf person you are communicating with to gauge the level of formality required.
Regional Variations
NZSL is the official sign language of New Zealand, but like any language, there can be regional variations. However, when it comes to signifying “please,” these variations are not significant. The variations discussed above are applicable throughout New Zealand, and you can confidently use them no matter where you are in the country.
Remember that NZSL is a living language, and different individuals may have personal preferences or variations based on their background or experience. Adapt and be open to learning from those you interact with, as it fosters a welcoming and inclusive communication environment.
Now that you have some formal and informal ways to say “please” in NZSL, continue to practice and expand your knowledge. Every sign you learn brings you closer to fully embracing the beauty and richness of NZSL, strengthening your bonds with the Deaf community while promoting inclusivity and respect.
