meus pêsames
The English phrase "I am sorry for your loss" is expressed in Portuguese as meus pêsames.
meus pêsames is used to express sympathy to someone whose relative or friend has died. It is the most common and natural way to offer condolences in Portuguese.
What does it mean word for word?
The phrase meus pêsames literally translates to "my condolences".
Which one should you use?
While meus pêsames is the standard idiomatic expression of sympathy, Sinto muito pela sua perda is a more direct translation of "I am sorry for your loss" and is often used in more formal or descriptive settings.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
For more formal settings, you can use Sinto muito pela sua perda (I am very sorry for your loss), Apresento as minhas condolências (I offer my condolences) or Lamento profundamente pela sua perda (which conveys deep regret). In informal situations, you might say Que tristeza (how sad) to express sympathy.
Did you know?
- The word pêsames is the plural of pêsame, which historically referred to a 'weight' or 'burden' of grief shared by others.
- In Brazil, it is very common to supplement meus pêsames with a religious sentiment, such as Que Deus conforte o seu coração (May God comfort your heart), even if you are not strictly religious.
- In Portugal, offering meus pêsames may be followed by the phrase muita força, which literally means 'much strength' and serves as a wish for resilience.
Examples in context
- Sinto muito pela sua perda, mesmo não tendo palavras para aliviar sua dor.I am sorry for your loss, even though I don't have words to ease your pain.
- Os meus sentimentos nesta hora tão difícil para a sua família.My feelings are with your family during this difficult time.
- Receba meus pêsames neste momento difícil.Please accept my condolences in this difficult moment.
- Meus pêsames, sinto muito mesmo.My condolences, I am truly sorry.
Example conversation
Beatriz visits Felipe to offer comfort after the passing of his father.
- BeatrizFelipe, meus pêsames pela sua perda.Felipe, I am sorry for your loss.
- FelipeObrigado, Beatriz. É um momento muito triste.Thank you, Beatriz. It is a very sad moment.
- BeatrizSinto muito por você e sua família.I am very sorry for you and your family.
- FelipeAgradeço muito o seu apoio.I really appreciate your support.
