How to Say “They/them” in French

ils
/il/
In French, the English phrase 'they/them' for a non-binary person is translated as ils.
Ces personnes is a polite and indirect way to refer to a group of people, while Ces gars-là is an informal expression used to refer to a specific group of people, especially males.
Meaning: non-binary person (noun)

Which one should you use?

While ils is the traditional masculine plural, iel is the common non-binary singular pronoun used to refer to a person of unspecified or non-binary gender.

How do you pronounce it?

/il/

What mistakes should you avoid?

English speakers often use ils to mean 'they' (non-binary), but in French, ils is strictly the masculine plural pronoun. For a single non-binary person, iel is the appropriate term.

Did you know?

  • The non-binary pronoun iel is a portmanteau of il 'he' and elle 'she'.
  • In Old French, the word 'il' was used for both 'he' and 'they' without needing an 's' to show plurality. The final '-s' in the modern 'ils' was only added during the 13th century as the language's grammatical structure changed.

Examples in context

  • Elles sont en réunion
    They [females] are in a meeting
  • Ils sont arrivés
    They [males and females] arrived
  • Ceux-ci sont mes collègues
    These [people] are my colleagues
  • Ces personnes vont organiser l'événement
    These people will organize the event
  • Ils sont partis en vacances
    They [males and females] went on vacation
  • Elles sont mes amies
    They [females] are my friends
  • Ces gars-là sont vraiment sympas
    Those guys are really nice
  • Ceux-là sont les nouveaux voisins
    Those [people] are the new neighbors

Example conversation

Hugo and Chloé are talking about a new colleague.

  1. Hugo

    Est-ce que tu connais le nouveau collègue ?
    Do you know the new colleague?
  2. Chloé

    Oui, ils sont très sympathiques.
    Yes, they are very nice.
  3. Hugo

    Je vais aller parler avec ils.
    I am going to go talk with them.
  4. Chloé

    C'est une bonne idée, Hugo.
    That is a good idea, Hugo.

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