What does it mean word for word?
The phrase is composed of aishite (the te-form of "to love"), kurete (the te-form of "to give/do for me") and arigatō ("thank you").
Which one should you use?
While arigatō is a general "thank you", the kurete part specifically emphasizes the recipient's action of giving love to the speaker.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
Adding gozaimasu to the end to form 愛してくれてありがとうございます makes the expression polite and suitable for a more formal setting or a more respectful tone toward a partner.
How does it change in a sentence?
The use of the auxiliary verb kurete (from kureru) is essential here because it specifies that the person is performing the action of loving as a favor or kindness toward the speaker.
How do you pronounce it?
aishite kurete arigatō
Did you know?
- The word arigatō is derived from a word meaning 'it is difficult to be', implying that the act of loving someone is a rare and precious occurrence.
- Japanese culture emphasizes amae, a unique concept of depending on another's indulgence. Expressing gratitude for being loved often acknowledges this symbiotic relationship of giving and receiving care.
- While English speakers often use 'love' as a broad term, the verb aisu used here is considered incredibly heavy and profound. It is rarely used in casual conversation and is usually reserved for life-changing connections or dramatic declarations.
Examples in context
- あなたが私を愛してくれて、ありがとうございます。Thank you for loving me
- いつも愛してくれてありがとう。Itsumo aishite kurete arigatou.Thank you for always loving me.
- 私を愛してくれてありがとう。Watashi o aishite kurete arigatou.Thank you for loving me.
Example conversation
A couple is celebrating their anniversary at home.
- 健太 Kenta結衣、いつもそばにいてくれてありがとう。Yui, itsumo soba ni ite kurete arigatou.Yui, thank you for always being by my side.
- 結衣 Yui私の方こそ。健太と一緒にいられて幸せよ。Watashi no hou koso. Kenta to issho ni irarete shiawase yo.Likewise. I'm happy to be with you, Kenta.
- 健太 Kenta僕を愛してくれてありがとう。Boku o aishite kurete arigatou.Thank you for loving me.
- 結衣 Yui私も愛してるわ。Watashi mo aishiteru wa.I love you too.