Ways to say it
| Japanese | Romanization (Wiktionary) |
|---|---|
| 遅れてすみません | okurete sumimasen |
| 遅くなって、すみません | osokunatte, sumimasen |
Which one should you use?
There is a subtle difference between two common ways to express being late. 遅れてすみません focuses on the fact that you have deviated from a specific schedule or set time. In contrast, 遅くなって、すみません focuses on the passage of time, such as when a process or an event has taken longer than expected or when you are simply late because things became delayed.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
The phrase 遅れてすみません is polite and suitable for use with teachers, bosses or strangers. For a more formal apology, you might use 遅れてしまいました。 or お待たせいたしました, which translates to 'I apologize for keeping you waiting.' If you are speaking to friends or family, you can use the informal versions 遅くなってごめん。 or 遅刻してごめんなさい。 or replace the polite ending with the informal 遅れてごめん.
How does it change in a sentence?
If you want to express the apology in the past tense (for example, once you have already arrived and the lateness is a completed event), you can change the ending to 遅れてすみませんでした.
How do you pronounce it?
okurete sumimasen
Did you know?
- The word すみません found in these apologies is a linguistic multitasker. Depending on the context, it can mean 'I am sorry', 'thank you' or 'excuse me'.
- When apologizing for being late, Japanese speakers often perform a bow. The deeper the bow and the longer it is held, the more sincere the apology for the delay is perceived to be.
- While 遅刻 refers to being late, it is specifically used for 'tardiness' to a scheduled start. You would not use this word to describe a train that is running behind schedule, as that uses the word 遅延.
Examples in context
- 会議に遅れてすみません。Sorry I'm late for the meeting.This sentence is useful for apologizing for being late to a specific event using the form 遅れてすみません.Tatoeba #185391 by small_snow, translation #22523 by CK
- 遅れてすみません。okurete sumimasen.Sorry I'm late.
- 電車が遅れてすみません。densha ga okurete sumimasen.Sorry I'm late because the train was delayed.
Example conversation
Misaki arrives at a cafe to meet Kenta for coffee.
- 美咲 Misaki健太さん、遅れてすみません。Kenta-san, okurete sumimasen.Kenta, sorry I'm late.
- 健太 Kenta大丈夫ですよ、美咲さん。Daijoubu desu yo, Misaki-san.It's okay, Misaki.
- 美咲 Misakiお待たせしました。Omatase shimashita.I kept you waiting.
- 健太 Kentaいえいえ、ちょうど今来たところです。Iie iie, choudo ima kita tokoro desu.No no, I just arrived myself.
Sources
- Wiktionary, “sorry I'm late” translations, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.
- Example sentences: Tatoeba CC BY 2.0 FR.