Ways to say it
| French | Note |
|---|---|
| sans vouloir vous vexer | formal |
| sans vouloir te vexer | informal |
| ne le prenez pas mal | formal |
| ne le prends pas mal | informal |
These phrases are typically used as a preamble to a statement that might be perceived as a criticism or a blunt truth.
What does it mean word for word?
The phrase sans vouloir vous vexer literally means "without wanting to vex/offend you".
Which one should you use?
While sans vouloir vous vexer is a literal way to express the idea, ne le prenez pas mal is a more idiomatic way to say "don't take it personally" or "don't take it the wrong way".
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
The phrase sans vouloir vous vexer and its idiomatic counterpart ne le prenez pas mal are formal. For informal situations, such as speaking to friends, family or a single person you know well, use sans vouloir te vexer or ne le prends pas mal.
How does it change in a sentence?
When speaking to a single person you know well or a peer, use sans vouloir te vexer instead of sans vouloir vous vexer.
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Examples in context
- Veuillez m'excuser si mes propos sont inappropriés. Ce n'est aucunement mon intention de vous froisser.Please excuse me if my words are inappropriate. It is by no means my intention to offend you.
- J'ai pas voulu te/vous froisser, hein.I didn't mean to offend you, you know.
- Sans vouloir vous vexer, votre projet est trop risqué.No offense, but your project is too risky.
- Je préfère rester seul, sans vouloir vous vexer.I prefer to be alone, no offense.
- Sans vouloir vous vexer, ce choix me semble étrange.No offense, but this choice seems strange to me.
Example conversation
Emma is giving professional feedback to Hugo during a meeting.
- EmmaSans vouloir vous vexer, ce rapport manque de détails.No offense, but this report lacks detail.
- HugoJe comprends, je vais le retravailler.I understand, I will rework it.
- EmmaC'est parfait, merci pour votre réactivité.That is perfect, thank you for your responsiveness.
- HugoDe rien, à tout à l'heure.You're welcome, see you later.
Sources
- Wiktionary, “no offense” translations, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries le, ne, pas, sans, te, vexer, vouloir, vous, CC BY-SA 4.0.