What does it mean word for word?
The phrase turut berduka cita literally means "to join in/participate in grief and sorrow".
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
Turut berduka cita is the standard formal way to express condolences. For a more formal personal statement, you can use Saya turut berduka cita (My condolences). If you are expressing condolences on behalf of a group or organization, use Kami turut berduka cita. For informal situations, you can use Saya ikut sedih (I share your sadness) or Maaf ya dengar kabar duka tersebut (Sorry to hear about the sad news).
How does it change in a sentence?
To specify who has passed away, you can say turut berduka cita atas wafatnya [nama], which means "my condolences on the passing of [name]".
When do people say it?
A formal expression often used is Semoga almarhum/almarhumah diterima di sisi-Nya, which means "May the deceased be accepted in His presence".
Did you know?
- In Indonesia, expressions of condolences are often accompanied by the act of takziah, which involves visiting the bereaved family to provide emotional and sometimes financial support.
- The word cita in the phrase comes from the Sanskrit word citta, which refers to the mind or consciousness. This links the expression of grief to a deep, mental state of being.
- While turut berduka cita is common, many Indonesians also use religious-specific phrases. For example, Muslims often say Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un to acknowledge that everything belongs to God.
Examples in context
- Saya turut berduka cita atas kehilangan Anda.I offer my condolences for your loss.
- Kami turut berduka cita sedalam-dalamnya.We offer our deepest condolences.
- Turut berduka cita atas meninggalnya ayah Anda.My condolences on the passing of your father.
Example conversation
Adi is visiting Sari at her home to express sympathy after her father passed away.
- AdiSari, saya turut berduka cita atas kepergian ayahmu.Sari, my condolences on the passing of your father.
- SariTerima kasih, Adi.Thank you, Adi.
- AdiSemoga kamu dan keluarga diberikan ketabahan.I hope you and your family find strength.
- SariAmin, terima kasih atas doanya.Amen, thank you for your prayers.
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries berduka, cita, turut, CC BY-SA 4.0.
