What does it mean word for word?
The phrase 잘 지냈어요 is composed of 잘 (well), 지내다 (to spend time/live) and the past tense polite ending -었어(요).
Which one should you use?
The honorific version 잘 지내셨어요? is used when showing extra respect to elders or superiors, whereas the informal version 잘 지냈어? is used with close friends or people younger than you.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
잘 지냈어요 is a polite form suitable for acquaintances, colleagues or people older than you, but it is not formal enough for high-ranking officials or very formal business settings.
How does it change in a sentence?
In spoken Korean, this phrase is used as a question by raising the intonation at the end, even without a formal question mark.
How do you pronounce it?
jal jinesseoyo
When do people say it?
A standard response to this greeting is 네, 잘 지냈어요, meaning "Yes, I have been well."
Did you know?
- While 'jal jinesseoyo' is a standard greeting, Koreans often use the phrase 밥 먹었어요? (Did you eat?) as a way to show care and ask how someone is doing.
- The word 잘 (well) is sometimes linked to the archaic term 자루 (jaru), which historically referred to a measure or a container.
- In Korean culture, the question 잘 지냈어요? can be a social formality where the speaker expects a positive answer regardless of the truth to maintain harmony.
Examples in context
- 그동안 잘 지냈어요?geudong-an jal jinesseoyo?Have you been doing well during that time?
- 오랜만이에요, 잘 지냈어요?oraenmanieyo, jal jinesseoyo?It's been a long time, how have you been?
- 선생님, 잘 지냈어요?seonsaengnim, jal jinesseoyo?Teacher, have you been well?
Example conversation
Two former classmates meet by chance at a cafe.
- 도현 Do-hyeon수빈 씨, 오랜만이에요. 잘 지냈어요?Subin-ssi, oraenmanieyo. jal jinesseoyo?Subin, long time no see. Have you been well?
- 수빈 Su-bin네, 도현 씨도 잘 지냈어요?Ne, Dohyeon-ssi-do jal jinesseoyo?Yes, have you been well too, Dohyeon?
- 도현 Do-hyeon네, 저는 아주 잘 지냈어요.Ne, jeoneun aju jal jinesseoyo.Yes, I have been doing very well.
- 수빈 Su-bin정말 다행이네요.Jeongmal dahaeng-ineyo.I'm really glad to hear that.
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries 잘, CC BY-SA 4.0.