How to Say “I Have a Boyfriend” in French

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j'ai un copain
j'ai un copain is the French way to say "I have a boyfriend".
This phrase is used to state that you are in a romantic relationship with a male partner. Because the word copain can also mean "friend" in many contexts, the specific meaning of "boyfriend" is typically understood through the situation or the tone of your voice.

What does it mean word for word?

The phrase is composed of je (I), ai (have), un (a) and copain (boyfriend/friend).

Which one should you use?

While j'ai un copain is common and slightly casual, j'ai un petit ami is a more standard way to specifically indicate a romantic boyfriend.

Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?

In very informal speech, you might also hear j'ai un mec, which translates to "I have a guy."

Is it said differently in some regions?

In Québec, the informal expression j'ai un chum is used to refer to having a boyfriend. In Belgium and Switzerland, j'ai un petit copain is used to indicate having a boyfriend.

Did you know?

  • The word copain actually has its roots in the phrase 'with bread'. It comes from the Latin compāniō, which literally refers to someone you share bread with.
  • In Québec, the word chum is used for boyfriend, which is an English loanword. However, in English, 'chum' usually means a platonic friend rather than a romantic partner.
  • While copain can be ambiguous, the slang term mec used in j'ai un mec originally referred to a 'fellow' or 'guy' in a general sense before becoming common shorthand for a boyfriend.

Examples in context

  • « Salut ! Je m'appelle Nick. Content, de te… » « J'ai un copain. »
    "Hi, my name's Nick. Nice to, " "I have a boyfriend."
    This example shows how to use j'ai un copain to quickly decline an interaction.
    Tatoeba #6478879 by Micsmithel, translation #6478497 by nickyeow
  • J'ai un copain qui m'aime.
    I have a boyfriend who loves me.
    This example uses j'ai un copain to describe a romantic partner.
    Tatoeba #384227 by MUIRIEL, translation #838790 by Scott
  • Désolée, j'ai un copain.
    Sorry, I have a boyfriend.

Example conversation

Lucas tries to ask Léa out for dinner.

  1. Lucas

    Léa, tu veux dîner avec moi ce soir ?
    Léa, do you want to have dinner with me tonight?
  2. Léa

    C'est gentil, mais j'ai un copain.
    That's kind, but I have a boyfriend.
  3. Lucas

    Oh, je ne savais pas !
    Oh, I didn't know!
  4. Léa

    Oui, nous sommes ensemble depuis un an.
    Yes, we have been together for a year.

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