¿Cómo está usted?
The Spanish phrase for "how are you? (formal)" is ¿Cómo está usted?
This phrase is a polite greeting used to ask someone about their well-being in a formal setting. It is appropriate for professional environments, such as when speaking to a boss, a client or a doctor.
What does it mean word for word?
The phrase is composed of cómo (how), está (are/is) and usted (you, formal).
How does it change in a sentence?
The pronoun usted is the reason the verb estar is conjugated in the third-person singular form está rather than the second-person estás.
When do people say it?
When responding to this formal greeting, it is polite to respond with Muy bien, gracias. ¿Y usted? (Very well, thank you. And you?). It is customary to use the formal usted in your return question to maintain the level of respect.
Did you know?
- In certain regions, people use usted even with pets or babies as a playful or ironic way to show affection.
- The formal 'you' in ¿Cómo está usted? actually comes from the old phrase vuestra merced, which meant 'your mercy'.
- In some Spanish-speaking cultures, using usted with a family member is a sign of deep respect rather than social distance.
Examples in context
- Buenos días, ¿cómo está usted?Good morning, how are you?
- Hola, señora, ¿cómo está usted?Hello, madam, how are you?
Example conversation
Daniel meets Elena, his new boss, for the first time.
- DanielBuenos días, Elena. ¿Cómo está usted?Good morning, Elena. How are you?
- ElenaEstoy muy bien, gracias. ¿Y usted?I am very well, thank you. And you?
- DanielMuy bien también, gracias por preguntar.Very well too, thank you for asking.
- ElenaDe nada. Comencemos la reunión.You're welcome. Let's start the meeting.
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries cómo, usted, CC BY-SA 4.0.