How to Say “Ex-boyfriend” in Chinese

前男友
qián nán yǒu
The English phrase "ex-boyfriend" is translated into Chinese as 前男友 (qián nán yǒu).
前男友 is used specifically to refer to a man who was previously in a romantic relationship with someone.

What does it mean word for word?

The term is composed of 前 (qián) meaning 'former' and 男友 (nányǒu) meaning 'boyfriend'.

Which one should you use?

While 前男友 specifically refers to a male ex-partner, you can use the term 前任 (qiánrèn) as a gender-neutral way to refer to an ex-partner or even a predecessor in a position.

How do you pronounce it?

qián nán yǒu

Did you know?

  • In internet slang, a particularly untrustworthy 前男友 is called a 渣男, which literally translates to 'scum man'.
  • The term 前任 is used for both a former romantic partner and a professional predecessor, such as a former CEO.
  • In many Chinese internet slang contexts, rather than using the formal 前男友, people might simply refer to an ex as 那个人 (nà ge rén), meaning 'that person', to signal a desire to distance themselves emotionally.

Examples in context

  • 我跟我的前男友分手了
    I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.
  • 我和我前任分手后,感觉自由了
    After breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, I feel free.
  • 我跟我的前男友约好了明天见面
    I have made plans to meet up with my ex-boyfriend tomorrow.
  • 我已经忘了我的前男友
    I have already forgotten about my ex-boyfriend.
  • 对我来说,我的前男友是一个重要的人
    To me, my ex-boyfriend is an important person.
  • 他是我的前男友。
    Tā shì wǒ de qián nányǒu.
    He is my ex-boyfriend.
  • 我不想见到她的前男友。
    Wǒ bù xiǎng jiàn dào tā de qián nányǒu.
    I don't want to see her ex-boyfriend.
  • 她的前男友是个好人。
    Tā de qián nányǒu shì gè hǎorén.
    Her ex-boyfriend is a good person.

Example conversation

Jia Yi and Jun Jie are talking about a girl's breakup.

  1. 佳怡 Jiayi

    那个男生是她的前男友吗?
    Nàge nánshēng shì tā de qián nányǒu ma?
    Is that guy her ex-boyfriend?
  2. 俊杰 Junjie

    对,他就是她的前男友。
    Duì, tā jiùshì tā de qián nányǒu.
    Yes, he is her ex-boyfriend.
  3. 佳怡 Jiayi

    他们现在还联系吗?
    Tāmen xiànzài hái liánxì ma?
    Are they still in contact?
  4. 俊杰 Junjie

    不,他们已经没联系了。
    Bù, tāmen yǐjīng méi liánxì le.
    No, they are no longer in contact.
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