Which one should you use?
While désolé can be used as a standalone exclamation, using the full phrase Je suis désolé provides a more complete and formal sense of apology.
Is it said differently in some regions?
In Québécois French, speakers may use the English-borrowed term 'sorry' more frequently than désolé.
How does it change in a sentence?
The spelling of the word changes to agree with the gender and number of the person expressing regret. Use désolé for masculine speakers. Add an extra e to form désolée if the person speaking is female. To express regret as a group of men or a mixed group, add an s to form désolés. If a group of only women is expressing regret, use désolées.
How do you pronounce it?
{'ipa': '/de.zɔ.le/', 'syllables': 3}
Did you know?
- The word désolé literally translates to 'devastated' or 'desolate'. This means that saying Je suis désolé is linguistically more intense than saying 'I am sorry'.
- In certain contexts, désolé can be used sarcastically to mean 'too bad' or 'tough luck' when someone is complaining about a situation that cannot be changed.
- While 'sorry' in English is often used as a filler word to acknowledge a misunderstanding, using désolé in French to simply mean 'pardon?' can sound strange. If you did not hear someone, it is better to use Comment? or Pardon?
Examples in context
- Excuse-moi, je suis en retard.Sorry, I'm late.
- Je suis désolé pour le retard.I am sorry for the delay.
- Il est désolé d'avoir oublié ton anniversaire.He is sorry for having forgotten your birthday.
- Je suis vraiment désolé de ce malentendu.I am truly sorry about this misunderstanding.
Example conversation
Gabriel accidentally bumped into Chloé in a crowded cafe.
- GabrielOh, désolé, je ne vous ai pas vue.Oh, sorry, I did not see you.
- ChloéCe n'est rien, ne vous inquiétez pas.It is nothing, do not worry.
- GabrielJe suis désolé, je suis un peu pressé.I am sorry, I am in a bit of a hurry.
- ChloéJe comprends, bonne journée, Gabriel.I understand, have a good day, Gabriel.
Sources
- Pronunciation: Wiktionary entry désolé, CC BY-SA 4.0, dump of 2026-09-26.