How to Say “Be My Girlfriend” in Japanese

彼女になって
kanojo ni natte
The phrase "be my girlfriend" in Japanese is 彼女になって (kanojo ni natte).
This phrase is a request used when asking someone to enter into a romantic relationship with you.

How do you pronounce it?

kanojo ni natte

Did you know?

  • In Japan, the act of asking someone to be your girlfriend is often called 告白 (kokuhaku), which literally translates to 'confession'.
  • The word 彼女 (kanojo) was not originally used to mean 'girlfriend' and only took on this romantic meaning in the early 20th century as Japanese adopted Western concepts of dating.
  • While 彼女になって is the direct translation, many people use the more ambiguous 付き合ってください (tsukiatte kudasai), which literally means 'please go out with me' or 'please accompany me'.

Examples in context

  • 彼女になってください。
    Please be my girlfriend.
    This sentence shows how to use 彼女になって in a polite request.
    Tatoeba #10741270 by small_snow, translation #10741264 by CK
  • 僕の彼女になってくれる?
    Do you want to be my girlfriend?
    This sentence shows an informal way to ask if someone wants to be your girlfriend using 彼女になって.
    Tatoeba #8985125 by bunbuku, translation #2033561 by CK
  • 僕の彼女になって欲しい。
    I want you to be my girlfriend.
    This sentence expresses a desire for someone to be your girlfriend using 彼女になって.
    Tatoeba #11163612 by small_snow, translation #4124521 by Hybrid
  • 田中さん、私の彼女になってください!
    Tanaka-san, be my girlfriend!
  • 1 more sentence on Tatoeba

Example conversation

Hiroto and Misaki are walking home together after a date.

  1. 美咲 Misaki

    大翔くん、今日は楽しかったね。
    Hiroto-kun, kyō wa tanoshikatta ne.
    I had a great time today, Hiroto.
  2. 大翔 Hiroto

    僕も。ずっと前から、美咲に彼女になってほしいと思ってたんだ。
    Boku mo. Zutto mae kara, Misaki ni kanojo ni natte hoshii to omottetanda.
    Me too. I've wanted you to be my girlfriend for a long time, Misaki.
  3. 美咲 Misaki

    本当?私も同じ気持ちだよ。
    Hontō? Watashi mo onaji kimochi dayo.
    Really? I feel the same way.
  4. 大翔 Hiroto

    よかった!じゃあ、正式に彼女になってくれる?
    Yokatta! Jaa, seishiki ni kanojo ni natte kureru?
    Thank goodness! Then, will you officially be my girlfriend?

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