How to Say “Are You Gay?” in Korean

게이예요?
geiyeyo?
The English phrase "are you gay?" is translated into Korean as 게이예요? (geiyeyo?)
This phrase is a direct question used to ask if someone is a man who is attracted to other men.

Which one should you use?

While 게이예요? is a polite way to ask, 게이입니까? is the highly formal version. Use the latter in professional settings or when speaking to someone of much higher status.

How does it change in a sentence?

The form 게이예요? uses the polite ending –예요.

How do you pronounce it?

geiyeyo?

Did you know?

  • In casual Korean conversation, people may avoid the word 게이 and instead use the phrase 그쪽 취향이에요?, which literally asks if someone is 'of that taste'.
  • Because Korean is a pro-drop language, the word for 'you' is often omitted. In the phrase 게이예요?, the subject is implied, and adding a formal word for 'you' like 당신 can actually make the question sound accusatory or confrontational.
  • The word 게이 is a direct loanword from English, but in Korea, it is often used exclusively for men. Women who are attracted to women typically use the term 레즈비언 instead of a gender-neutral term for 'gay'.

Examples in context

  • 혹시 게이예요?
    hoksi geieyo?
    Are you gay, by any chance?
  • 그분은 게이예요?
    geubuneun geieyo?
    Is he gay?

Example conversation

Two people are talking about their dating preferences.

  1. 민준 Min-jun

    민준 씨, 혹시 게이예요?
    Minjun ssi, hoksi geiyeyo?
    Minjun, are you gay by any chance?
  2. 서연 Seo-yeon

    네, 맞아요. 어떻게 알았어요?
    ne, majayo. eotteoke arasseoyo?
    Yes, that's right. How did you know?
  3. 민준 Min-jun

    그냥 느낌이 왔어요.
    geunyang neukkimi wasseoyo.
    I just had a feeling.
  4. 서연 Seo-yeon

    눈썰미가 좋으시네요.
    nunssolmiga jo-eusineyo.
    You have a good eye.
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