How to Say “Are You Gay” in French

tu es gay
The English phrase "are you gay" can be said in French using tu es gay.
This phrase is used to ask if someone is romantically or sexually attracted to people of their own gender.

Which one should you use?

The phrase tu es gay is a statement meaning "you are gay" unless it is spoken with a rising intonation at the end to indicate a question. To clearly mark the phrase as a question, you can use the standard question marker est-ce que tu es gay.

How does it change in a sentence?

In French, you should use vous êtes gay if you are addressing more than one person or if you are using the formal you. In casual spoken French, you can simply use the statement tu es gay with a rising intonation to turn it into a question.

Did you know?

  • The word gay in the phrase is actually a linguistic loop. It was borrowed from English into French, but the English word itself originally came from the French word gai, which meant 'cheerful'.
  • The word gay in French is almost exclusively used for men, whereas lesbienne is used for women rather than a gender-neutral term.
  • The phrase sortir du placard, meaning 'to come out of the closet', is used in French exactly as it is in English.

Examples in context

  • Je me demandais si tu es gay.
    I was wondering if you are gay.
  • Tu es gay, n'est-ce pas ?
    You are gay, aren't you?

Example conversation

Two friends are talking privately at a cafe.

  1. Léa

    Dis-moi, est-ce que tu es gay ?
    Tell me, are you gay?
  2. Nathan

    Oui, je suis gay.
    Yes, I am gay.
  3. Léa

    Je voulais simplement le savoir.
    I just wanted to know.
  4. Nathan

    C'est gentil de me demander.
    It is kind of you to ask.

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