How to Say “Wrong Person” in Chinese

错的人
cuò de rén
In Chinese, the phrase "wrong person" is translated as 错的人 (cuò de rén).
This phrase is commonly used in the context of romantic heartbreak to describe a partner who was not the right match.

What does it mean word for word?

The phrase is composed of 错 (wrong/incorrect), 的 (possessive/adjectival particle) and 人 (person).

How do you pronounce it?

cuò de rén

Did you know?

  • If you were to say you 'met the wrong person' due to a misunderstanding rather than romance, you would likely use the word 认错 (rèn cuò), which means 'to misidentify' or 'to mistake one person for another'.
  • The character 错 also describes missing a train or a target. This gives 错的人 a poetic double meaning of someone who 'missed the mark' of destiny.
  • In Chinese pop culture, the concept of the 错的人 is often paired with the idea of 'the right time' 对的时间. A common bittersweet sentiment is that meeting the 错的人 at the 'right time' is a tragedy, but meeting the 'right person' at the 'wrong time' is a fate.

Examples in context

  • 对不起,请问我找错人了吗?
    Excuse me, have I found the wrong person?
  • 非常抱歉,我找错人了。
    I'm very sorry, I've found the wrong person.
  • 嘿,抱歉,看来我弄错人了。
    Hey, sorry, it seems like I've got the wrong person.
  • 唉,我搵错人咗。
    Oops, I've found the wrong person.
  • 我爱错了人
    I loved the wrong person.
  • 我不该爱上错的人。
    Wǒ bù gāi àishàng cuò de rén.
    I shouldn't have fallen in love with the wrong person.
  • 你遇到了错的人。
    Nǐ yùdàole cuò de rén.
    You have encountered the wrong person.

Example conversation

Zihan and Junjie are discussing their past relationships.

  1. 梓涵 Zihan

    我以前总是在爱错的人。
    Wǒ yǐqián zǒngshì zài ài cuò de rén.
    I was always loving the wrong person in the past.
  2. 俊杰 Junjie

    没关系,现在你明白了。
    Méiguānxì, xiànzài nǐ míngbai le.
    It's okay, you understand now.
  3. 梓涵 Zihan

    但我还是觉得很遗憾。
    Dàn wǒ háishì juéde hěn yíhàn.
    But I still feel it's a pity.
  4. 俊杰 Junjie

    那是为了让你遇到对的人。
    Nà shì wèile ràng nǐ yùdào duì de rén.
    That was to let you meet the right person.
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