How to Say “To Go on a Date” in Spanish

tener una cita
/teneɾ una θita/from spelling rules
In Spanish, 'to go on a date' is expressed as tener una cita.
The phrase is used to describe having a planned romantic meeting with another person. You can also use salir con alguien to describe the act of dating someone or going out with them romantically.

What does it mean word for word?

Literally, tener una cita means 'to have an appointment' or 'to have a date'.

Which one should you use?

While tener una cita can refer to a romantic date, it is also the standard way to say 'to have an appointment' (e.g., with a doctor or a lawyer). For a more informal way to express going on a date, you can use salir.

Is it said differently in some regions?

In Argentina, the verb salir is commonly used to express going on a date.

How does it change in a sentence?

To say 'I am going on a date,' Spanish speakers typically use the present tense tengo una cita (I have a date) rather than a literal translation of 'going'.

How do you pronounce it?

/teneɾ una θita/

What mistakes should you avoid?

Avoid saying ir en una cita, which is a literal translation of 'go on a date' from English. Instead, use the natural idiomatic expression tener una cita.

Did you know?

  • The word cita shares a common ancestor with the English word 'cite', both stemming from the idea of 'summoning' or 'calling' someone.
  • In some Spanish-speaking cultures, the phrase salir con alguien implies a more committed relationship status than the English 'going out with someone'. It often suggests the couple is officially 'together'.

Examples in context

  • Me gustaría invitarte a salir. ¿Te gustaría ir al cine conmigo?
    I would like to ask you out. Would you like to go to the movies with me?
  • ¿Me permitiría pedirle una cita?
    Would you allow me to ask you out?
  • ¿Quieres salir conmigo este fin de semana?
    Do you want to go out with me this weekend?
  • ¿Querés salir conmigo?
    Do you want to go out with me?
  • Mañana voy a tener una cita.
    Tomorrow I am going to have a date.
  • ¿Quieres tener una cita conmigo?
    Do you want to go on a date with me?
  • Él quiere tener una cita con ella.
    He wants to go on a date with her.

Example conversation

Javier and Sofía are talking about their weekend plans at a cafe.

  1. Javier

    ¿Vas a tener una cita este viernes?
    Are you going to have a date this Friday?
  2. Sofía

    Sí, voy a tener una cita con un chico nuevo.
    Yes, I am going to have a date with a new guy.
  3. Javier

    ¡Qué bien! Espero que te guste.
    That's great! I hope you like him.
  4. Sofía

    Gracias, Javier. Estoy muy emocionada.
    Thanks, Javier. I am very excited.

Sources

  • IPA marked “from spelling rules” is derived from standard Spanish spelling, where Wiktionary gives none.
  • Word origins: Wiktionary entries cita, tener, una, CC BY-SA 4.0.
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