lo siento, pero no
The English phrase "sorry, but no" is translated into Spanish as lo siento, pero no.
lo siento, pero no is a polite way to refuse a request or decline an invitation.
Which one should you use?
While the component lo siento by itself expresses regret, adding pero no clarifies that the refusal is definitive.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
This phrase is neutral and is suitable for both formal and informal situations when declining an offer or request.
How does it change in a sentence?
In the phrase lo siento, pero no, the verb sentir is conjugated in the first-person singular present indicative to express the speaker's regret.
Did you know?
- While lo siento is common, you can also say me sabe mal to express regret, which literally translates to 'it tastes bad to me'.
- The word pero originates from the Late Latin 'per hoc', which literally meant 'through this' or 'for this reason'.
- While lo siento is a standard refusal, in many Spanish-speaking cultures, a direct 'no' is avoided to save face. People often use me gustaría, pero… to soften the blow even further.
Examples in context
- No es posible para mí en este momento, muchas gracias por pensar en míIt's not possible for me at the moment, thank you so much for considering me
- Le agradezco su amable invitación, pero no podré asistirI appreciate your kind invitation, but I won't be able to attend
- Aprecio que me hayas invitado, pero no puedo irI appreciate you inviting me, but I can't go
- No me apetece, pero gracias por pensar en míI don't feel like it, but thank you for thinking of me
- No puedo acceder a su petición, lo sientoI cannot comply with your request, I'm sorry
- No puedo aceptar, disculpaI can't accept, sorry
- ¿Quieres ir al cine conmigo? Lo siento, pero no.Do you want to go to the movies with me? Sorry, but no.
- Lo siento, pero no puedo ir a la fiesta.Sorry, but I cannot go to the party.
- Lo siento, pero no tengo dinero ahora.Sorry, but I don't have money right now.
Example conversation
Elena invites Javier to a party.
- JavierHola Elena, ¿vienes a mi fiesta?Hi Elena, are you coming to my party?
- ElenaLo siento, pero no puedo ir hoy.I'm sorry, but I can't go today.
- JavierQué pena, te vamos a extrañar.What a pity, we are going to miss you.
- ElenaGracias, Javier. ¡Diviértanse mucho!Thanks, Javier. Have a lot of fun!
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries lo, no, pero, CC BY-SA 4.0.