How to Say “I Miss My Ex” in Spanish

extraño a mi ex
/eɡstɾaɲo a mi eɡs/from spelling rules
The English phrase "I miss my ex" is translated into Spanish as extraño a mi ex.
This phrase is used to express sadness because a person is no longer in a romantic relationship with a former partner. Within the phrase, mi ex acts as a noun to refer to the former partner, similar to how the term is used in English.

Which one should you use?

While extraño a mi ex is a common way to express this feeling in Latin America, in Spain it is more common to say echo de menos a mi ex.

Is it said differently in some regions?

extraño a mi ex is common in Latin America.

How does it change in a sentence?

The phrase uses the personal a because the object of the verb is a person. If you want to describe a state in the past, such as saying you "used to miss" or "were missing" them, you should use the imperfect tense extrañaba a mi ex.

How do you pronounce it?

/eɡstɾaɲo a mi eɡs/

Did you know?

  • The Spanish word extraño shares a common ancestor with the English word 'strange'. They both evolved from Latin roots meaning 'outside' or 'foreign', because someone you no longer know feels like a stranger.
  • While extraño means 'to miss' in this context, it can also be an adjective meaning 'strange'.

Examples in context

  • Extraño a mi ex, pero sé que es lo mejor.
    I miss my ex, but I know it's for the best.
  • A veces extraño a mi ex mucho.
    Sometimes I miss my ex a lot.

Example conversation

Lucía and Mateo are talking at a coffee shop.

  1. Lucía

    La verdad es que extraño a mi ex.
    The truth is that I miss my ex.
  2. Mateo

    Lo siento mucho, Lucía.
    I am very sorry, Lucía.
  3. Lucía

    Es difícil estar sola ahora.
    It is hard being alone now.
  4. Mateo

    Ánimo, vas a estar bien.
    Cheer up, you are going to be fine.

Sources

  • IPA marked “from spelling rules” is derived from standard Spanish spelling, where Wiktionary gives none.
  • Word origins: Wiktionary entries a, ex, extraño, mi, CC BY-SA 4.0.
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