Which one should you use?
While ich liebe dich sehr is used for intense romantic love, the phrase Ich hab' dich lieb is a less intense, more casual way to express affection, often used with friends or family. For a more playful or child-friendly tone, Ich hab' dich ganz doll lieb. can also be used to mean "I love you very much."
How does it change in a sentence?
The phrase ich liebe dich sehr is built upon the core declaration ich liebe dich. Because lieben is a transitive verb that takes a direct object, the word dich is used as the accusative form of du.
How do you pronounce it?
/ɪç ˈliːbə dɪç zeːr/
When do people say it?
The phrase Ich hab' dich ganz doll lieb. is particularly popular among children.
Did you know?
- The word sehr traces its roots back to the Old High German word sēr, which originally meant 'injured' or 'sore'.
- While English speakers use 'love' for almost everything from pizza to partners, German speakers must be careful to use ich liebe dich only for the most serious emotional commitments.
- In German, there is a strict hierarchy of affection where using the phrase ich liebe dich sehr with a close friend might actually be seen as too intense or even awkward.
Examples in context
- Ich liebe dich sehr.I love you very much.This sentence is useful for practicing the phrase ich liebe dich sehr.Tatoeba #816884 by al_ex_an_der, translation #400410 by sysko
- Ich liebe dich sehr, mein Schatz.I love you very much, my darling.
- Vergiss bitte nie: Ich liebe dich sehr.Please never forget: I love you very much.
Example conversation
Laura and Maximilian are sitting together on a park bench at sunset.
- LauraDu bist die wundervollste Frau.You are the most wonderful woman.
- MaximilianUnd ich liebe dich sehr, Laura.And I love you very much, Laura.
- LauraDas ist so schön zu hören.That is so lovely to hear.
- MaximilianIch bin so froh, dass ich dich habe.I am so happy that I have you.
Sources
- IPA marked “word by word” joins the Wiktionary pronunciations of each word (ich, Liebe, dich, sehr) and can differ in connected speech.
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries dich, ich, sehr, CC BY-SA 4.0.
- Example sentences: Tatoeba CC BY 2.0 FR.