What does it mean word for word?
The phrase ¿Me lo das? literally translates to "Will you give it to me?", where me is the indirect object (to me), lo is the direct object (it) and das is the second-person singular conjugation of dar (to give).
Which one should you use?
While ¿Me lo das? is a common way to ask to "get" something by asking someone to give it to you, the more literal translation for "Can I have it?", ¿Puedo tenerlo?, is used less frequently in casual requests for physical objects.
Is there a formal and an informal way to say it?
For a more polite or formal register, such as when speaking to a stranger or an elder, change the verb conjugation from das to da to form ¿Me lo da?
How does it change in a sentence?
The direct object pronoun must change to match the gender and number of the object you are referring to. Use ¿Me la das? for a feminine noun, ¿Me los das? for a masculine plural noun and ¿Me las das? for a feminine plural noun.
Did you know?
- In many Spanish-speaking cultures, asking ¿Me lo das? while simultaneously reaching for the object is common, whereas in some English-speaking cultures, touching the object before permission is granted is considered rude.
- While ¿Me lo das? is very common, using the literal translation ¿Puedo tenerlo? can sometimes sound like you are asking for legal ownership of an object rather than just asking to use it.
- The word lo in ¿Me lo das? evolved from the Latin word illum, which originally meant 'that one' or 'that' rather than just 'it'.
Examples in context
- ¿Puedo conseguir el informe, por favor?Can I get the report, please?
- ¿Me lo das?Can you give it to me?
- Es un regalo muy lindo, ¿me lo das?It is a very cute gift, can you give it to me?
- Si no lo quieres, ¿me lo das?If you don't want it, can you give it to me?
Example conversation
Elena sees a piece of candy in Daniel's hand.
- Elena¿Qué es eso, Daniel?What is that, Daniel?
- DanielEs un caramelo de fresa.It is a strawberry candy.
- ElenaSe ve rico, ¿me lo das?It looks tasty, can I get it?
- DanielClaro, toma.Sure, here you go.
Sources
- Word origins: Wiktionary entries lo, me, CC BY-SA 4.0.