How to Say “But I Love You” in Spanish

pero te quiero
/peɾo te kjeɾo/from spelling rules
The English phrase "but i love you" is translated into Spanish as pero te quiero.
This phrase is used to express affection for someone despite a conflicting situation or a disagreement.

What does it mean word for word?

Literally, pero te quiero means "but I want you". In the context of people, the verb querer is the standard way to express "to love" in many Spanish-speaking regions.

Which one should you use?

While pero te quiero is a common way to express affection, you might use pero te amo to express a much deeper, more intense or strictly romantic love.

How do you pronounce it?

/peɾo te kjeɾo/

Did you know?

  • The word pero evolved from the Latin phrase per hoc, which meant 'for this reason'. Over centuries, it shifted from explaining a cause to introducing a contrast.
  • In certain dialects, the distinction between te quiero and te amo is so sharp that using te amo too early in a relationship can actually scare a partner away.
  • Spanish has several words for love, such as cariño, which describes a tender affection that is softer than the love found in te quiero.

Examples in context

  • ¡Pero te quiero!
    But I love you!
    This example shows the phrase used as an exclamation.
    Tatoeba #10093060 by manufrutos, translation #10087190 by ddnktr
  • Me siento un poco incómodo al sacar el tema, pero te quiero.
    I feel a little uncomfortable bringing this up, but I love you.
    This example shows the phrase being used to express affection after mentioning a feeling of discomfort.
    Tatoeba #1100883 by Shishir, translation #869414 by CM
  • Estamos discutiendo mucho, pero te quiero.
    We are arguing a lot, but I love you.

Example conversation

A couple is having a minor disagreement about their living arrangements.

  1. Sofía

    No estamos de acuerdo en nada hoy.
    We don't agree on anything today.
  2. Alejandro

    Es verdad, es muy frustrante.
    It's true, it is very frustrating.
  3. Sofía

    Lo sé, pero te quiero, Alejandro.
    I know, but I love you, Alejandro.
  4. Alejandro

    Yo también te quiero, Sofía.
    I love you too, Sofía.

Sources

  • IPA marked “from spelling rules” is derived from standard Spanish spelling, where Wiktionary gives none.
  • Word origins: Wiktionary entries pero, te, CC BY-SA 4.0.
  • Example sentences: Tatoeba CC BY 2.0 FR.
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