How to Say “Be the Bigger Person” in Spanish

actuar con madurez
/aɡtwaɾ kon maduɾeθ/from spelling rules
The English phrase "be the bigger person" can be translated into Spanish as actuar con madurez.
Actuar con madurez is a common way to suggest someone should rise above a petty conflict or provocation.

Which one should you use?

A more literal translation of the English idiom 'be the bigger person' is ser la persona más madura, meaning "to be the more mature person".

Did you know?

  • If you use the word 'maduro' to describe a person in a non-argumentative context, you might accidentally be saying they are 'ripe' or 'fully grown', like a fruit.
  • In some contexts, taking the high road is described as ser noble. While 'noble' in English often refers to aristocracy, in Spanish it frequently describes a person who is generous of spirit and forgiving toward enemies.
  • The word madurez is built with the suffix -ez, which is used in Spanish to turn adjectives into abstract nouns. This is the same suffix found in vejez for 'old age' and niñez for 'childhood'.

Examples in context

  • Es mejor actuar con madurez en esta situación.
    It is better to be the bigger person in this situation.
  • Ella decidió actuar con madurez y no responder.
    She decided to be the bigger person and not respond.
  • Debes actuar con madurez ante sus insultos.
    You should be the bigger person despite his insults.

Example conversation

Elena and Javier are discussing a disagreement at work.

  1. Elena

    Él fue muy grosero contigo hoy.
    He was very rude to you today.
  2. Javier

    Lo sé, pero voy a actuar con madurez.
    I know, but I am going to be the bigger person.
  3. Elena

    Esa es la mejor actitud, Javier.
    That is the best attitude, Javier.
  4. Javier

    Gracias por el consejo, Elena.
    Thanks for the advice, Elena.

Sources

  • IPA marked “from spelling rules” is derived from standard Spanish spelling, where Wiktionary gives none.
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