How to Say “Be Nice” in Chinese

友好一点
you hao yi dian
To say 'be nice' in Chinese, use 友好一点 (you hao yi dian).
The phrase 友好一点 is typically used as a suggestion or a mild command to improve one's attitude or social demeanor.

What does it mean word for word?

The phrase is composed of 友好 (friendly), 一点 (a little/a bit) and the implied verb 'to be'.

How does it change in a sentence?

Adding 一点 (yi dian) after an adjective is a common way to turn a quality into a suggestion or command to 'be more [adjective]'.

How do you pronounce it?

you hao yi dian

Did you know?

  • If you are telling a child to 'be nice' by being polite, you would more likely use 懂事一点 (dǒng shì yī diǎn), which literally means 'be a little more sensible/understand things'.
  • The character 友 (you) in 友好 is a pictograph that originally depicted two hands joined together, symbolizing mutual support.
  • While 友好 means 'friendly', Chinese speakers often use the word 客气 (ke qi) to describe a specific kind of 'niceness' involving polite formality and social distance.

Examples in context

  • 请友好对待我们的合作伙伴
    Please treat our business partners kindly
  • 对别人友好点,这样生活会更美好
    Be nicer to others, and life will be better
  • 对他友好一点。
    Duì tā yǒuhǎo yīdiǎn.
    Be a little nicer to him.
  • 你应该对同事友好一点。
    Nǐ yīnggāi duì tóngshì yǒuhǎo yīdiǎn.
    You should be a bit nicer to your colleagues.
  • 对新同学友好一点吧。
    Duì xīn tóngxué yǒuhǎo yīdiǎn ba.
    Be nice to the new classmate.

Example conversation

Haoran is being grumpy during a group project.

  1. 雨婷 Yuting

    浩然,你对雨婷友好一点。
    Hàorán, nǐ duì Yǔtíng yǒuhǎo yīdiǎn.
    Haoran, be nicer to Yuting.
  2. 浩然 Haoran

    我没有在生气。
    wǒ méiyǒu zài shēngqì.
    I am not angry.
  3. 雨婷 Yuting

    但你的语气很凶。
    dàn nǐ de yǔqì hěn xiōng.
    But your tone is very harsh.
  4. 浩然 Haoran

    好吧,我会友好一点的。
    hǎo ba, wǒ huì yǒuhǎo yīdiǎn de.
    Fine, I will be nicer.
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